Wednesday, June 29, 2011

Children - the hands by which we take hold of heaven

“Leave this….don´t do that….be at home on time…..”

Haven´t we all at least once in our life heard these words?


Those are words of concerned parents going along with the education
of each and every human like finding one´s feet. As a child one mostly
vindicates the point of view the parents think one´s not capable to do
anything but the reverse is true.
Such cautions and prohibitions serve as the basis to keep the kids to
all intents and purposes out of harm´s way, yet one realizes this only
as one grows older. Everyone of us will reach the point where we will
discern: “Now I know what my parents intended with it.”
LEAVE IT TO THE BEAVER has been my P.O.V as a child.
Now thatI am a mother myself, I see things in a different way.

So just let me tell you my personal experience how a child can
change a life from one to the other moment and how much
happiness as well as responsibility is linked with it.

Well, my pregnancy went off without any problems and the
luckiest day in my life had been the 26th July 2004, the day
my little Angel was born. This was a really strange and hard
day for me as in the morning all was good until I went for a
hot bath in the afternoon ( biggest mistake ever, don´t ever
do that girls, as it induces labour!). After I came out of the
bathroom I perceived the first pain in my stomach but
didn´t took it serious as it was only for some minutes. By the
early evening I even went for a walk and suddenly went into
labour. It was an indescribable pain and 2 hours later when I
hardly couldn´t stand it anymore, our journey to hospital began.
Inside the car must have been a horrible scene as I was crying
out of pain and truly felt like dieing. And you need to know, I only
had been 17 and an expectant mother at that time. Never before
I could imagine such a pang but after what seemed like an eternity
for me, we finally arrived at the hospital and this is how the story
ends.
Half an hour after my arrival my most precious gift in life had been
given to me. Exactly at 8.37pm my daughter was born and I was
proud like anything. Yes from that day my life changed totally as
I had to accomoderate a number of things since that time. In the
morning I was a normal student and in the afternoon my world only
returned around my baby. Since my parents supported me from the
first day I could finish my school as well as my professional education.
This makes me overgrateful towards them and its priceless what
they´ve done for me because this all wouldn´t have been possible
without them!

Nowadays my little lady is a nice almost 7 year-old girl, inquisitive, a bit
bold and a diligent first class student. All I can say is I love being a
mother and my love for my daughter grows day by day.

Last but not least let me share the most beautiful quote about this topic:

While we try to teach our children all about life, our children teach us
what life is all about.

3 comments:

Steffi_singh said...

Wow what a powerful blog sis u r truly amazing mother and Carina is truly a blessing to u as u r to her. I have lots of love and respect for u god bless u both and always keep u both happy. Mwahhhhh

arunDasyam said...

i like your post., words of heart will always reach to heart. Touching. keep going..long way to go..

Shahri said...

Thanks alot to both of you ♥